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RW1F · 07-25-2004, 04:27 AM

From my last couple of months on this board I get the sense that a lot of people make this swinging thing much more complicated than it needs to be. My wife and I don't "swing" but we have enjoyed the voyeur/exhibionist part a few times at some clubs. Of our three visits to clubs we have never walked away without a chance to have sex with at least one other couple. On two of the three visits we had multiple offers and could have jumped on a few "piles" as well. I think we're probably in a good area for this kind of thing but I just can't imagine that it's all that hard to find other people that want to have sex. For the record, my wife is an attractive 30-ish gal but not a supermodel, I'm an attractive guy that needs to shed about 30-40 lbs. Neither of us are what you'd consider porn star ready but we aren't grotesque either. Just average people in a club full of mostly average people.

I guess my question is, are those people that have difficulty finding partners........

1: Are you looking for friends or just "fuck buddies". Also, how picky are you being in either case?

2: Do you use the internet/magazines or do you go to on-premise clubs?

3: Have you turned down opportunities or do you just not have any?

07-25-2004, 04:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
RW1F Here to Stay Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 92 Location: Southwest Status: Couple	Do people make things complicated? From my last couple of months on this board I get the sense that a lot of people make this swinging thing much more complicated than it needs to be. My wife and I don't "swing" but we have enjoyed the voyeur/exhibionist part a few times at some clubs. Of our three visits to clubs we have never walked away without a chance to have sex with at least one other couple. On two of the three visits we had multiple offers and could have jumped on a few "piles" as well. I think we're probably in a good area for this kind of thing but I just can't imagine that it's all that hard to find other people that want to have sex. For the record, my wife is an attractive 30-ish gal but not a supermodel, I'm an attractive guy that needs to shed about 30-40 lbs. Neither of us are what you'd consider porn star ready but we aren't grotesque either. Just average people in a club full of mostly average people. I guess my question is, are those people that have difficulty finding partners........ 1: Are you looking for friends or just "fuck buddies". Also, how picky are you being in either case? 2: Do you use the internet/magazines or do you go to on-premise clubs? 3: Have you turned down opportunities or do you just not have any? __________________ Shall we?