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Originally Posted by hotblonde47 . . . it's hard to find a 4-way match. Has anyone else had this problem????? |
Yes. Mr LM and I have yet to find a couple.
If we were ready for MFM, we'd have been swinging long ago, it's much easier to find a "fit" when you're looking for only one person to join you.
Your age shouldn't be a problem as long as couples are open to meeting a sixty year old man with a forty-seven year old wife. If your husband looks younger than his age, include a picture in your profile (presuming you have an ad placed on a swinger site) or at least mention in your profile that he is youthful for his age (you'll have to decide how to best state it) this way people will know more about him.
I do think age can make a difference in couples' selection of partners. Even though my husband is fifty-seven, we have our preferred age range topped at fifty-five. Why? Because I have met very few men over fifty-five who come across as well as my husband--in energy, fitness and looks. I am more attracted to men thirty-five to fifty years of age. I will not eliminate men over fifty-five, it's simply a preference.
LM
P.S. My age is fifty-one.