 Re: Age Differences
There is about 10 years between my boyfriend and I. He will be 31 this year and I just turned 21. Although we have not had any serious age problems, I do see where you are coming from. With our situation, it's more my "young" age. I get the "oh you're just a baby," "Oh, are you sure you even know what you want sexually?" and the "Oh.. you're only 21? I'm sure you can't handle someone my age." And then of course there are the ones that rise to the occasion of having the idea of being with a 21 year old, i think it brings back memories for some! lol.. So i know somewhat of where your age problems are. There is also the problem with my preferences. Although i am a very mature 21 year old, I do know what i do and don't want. And it's hard for me to fathom the idea of being with a 40 year, someone old enough to be my father. We try staying under the 35 yr old age range, but, we never judge a couple solely on their numbers. If I were to find a 40 year old couple I was attracted to, there would be no problem. I ultimately feel swinging is at least 90% about attraction and from that point on, the rest just falls into place.
Okay, sorry, I've done went and babbled! lol. I just wanted to let you know I feel for ya! lol
Take Care!
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