You know, I had never thought about it with any other women because I never knew the size of the men before me, and they never complained about my average size unit... Then, my now wife and I moved in together after we had been dating for some months and a picture of her ex-boyfriend of two years fell out of a book as we were unpacking in our new apartment. He was asleep on a bed and his dang thing was flopped up to his belly button!
But in the end, size doesn't matter much to her at all. Her ex-husband was below average, her next serious relationship was WAY above average, and she has had boyfriends all the way in between. She (and I think the majority of women) are more concerned with the craftsman rather than the tool. As long as the tool is large enough to hit all the right spots that is all that matters. And when it comes to husbands, it's not the cock, it's who it is attached to that makes sex with the one you are married to better.
I posed a question to a self-professed size queen a couple of months ago. I asked her "would you rather have a guy with a huge cock that is average at oral sex or a guy with an average size cock that huge orally." She didn't even hesitate to answer the guy with the average size cock. Reason? She said in reality any size cock can get her off just fine, other aspects of sex are just as important as size, and when it came down to it was simply the visuals of a large cock that made it erotic. Kind of like tits on a woman. Regardless of your preference (big or little) the sex isn't better, just the initial visual or attraction can be more erotic. Most all the women I know say the same about cock size.
You will always have a small percentage that say size is all that matters, but as long as it isn't your wife, what's to worry about?
And you know what? The fact that you are smaller may be one of the things that attracts her to you. You are different then the previous playmate. What would be the fun if everybody was the same?
Mr. WS