 Re: Dating Older Couples
I have to pipe in on this one! When I first started in this lifestyle, I made it clear to Angie that I was only interested in people around our age or younger. We had a few experiences, nothing that great to speak of. Then we made friends with a couple who's male half I work with. They are closer to their 40's. Angie has always been attracted to more mature guys so things moved along quickly towards intimacy (it didn't hurt that they are kinky too). Heck I had promised myself never to play with someone I worked with to avoid the inherent complications let alone someone I saw as much older. But the sensuality that this woman displayed cleared any distinction in age I may have held. She could be as youthful as she wished, and as sexy as I hoped! More importantly she gave me a new appreciation for maturity! She is probably one of the most intellectual persons I have had the thrill of talking to. She helped me through some insecurities I had outside of the age difference. She was very sensitive to problems I had with anxiety medication at the time, and very comforting during embarrassing times. She had/has the personality that lets you look over any imperfections, but this was not really present as I found her sexy as hell! We have remained great friends to this day, the kind you can go for weeks without talking to and start back together as though it were just yesterday.
This has helped me experience other couples I wouldn't have considered early on. Most recently, in fact, we have met a couple closer to 50 who we have had the time of our lives with! I hate to think what I would have missed out on had I let that initial little hangup hold me back! This lifestyle is so much more about open-mindedness, in varying races, shapes, flavors (kinks), and age discrepencies.
Joe
P.S. Thanks Angel!
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