Hello.
I am one half of a couple who will be attending our first swing event later this month. Being a very large lady myself, I could not have been happier at the kind responses this comment recieved. I sure understand that everyone has their personal likes and dislikes, and as long as we all treat each other with respect-people don't have to feel badly. My husband loves BBWs. He is of average weight. Because I know my husband likes big women, I know that there must be more like him.
It is still difficult to overcome the insecurity of not living up to society's "standards"-but reading such kind comments as this; helps so much. I do also have social stigmas to rid myself of, that I desire to rid myself of-and finding such openess and understanding in this lifestyle has gone a long way in reassuring me that this is a healthy choice for my life and my marriage. Even without the "bonus" of sex, the lure of intelligent, honest and caring people is a draw for me.
Thank you.
Peace