Re: Hot Hubby/Fat Wife
My wife and I are similar in situation. I don't work out much at all. But I am one of those people that just doesn't get past a certain weight, and I am in the "normal" range on the body mass index. So I am not buff, but not packing extra pounds either.
My wife wants to lose some weight though. I have known her from a size 10 up and back down to her present 14/16. I'm not hung up on it and she doesn't let it dominate her thoughts either. I like curvy women anyway. And we have found in the lifestyle that almost nobody cares either. It is the whole package they seem to care about. People she thought would never be interested in her (Barbie and Kens)... are. Every party we go to men and women are all over my wife. We don't lie on our profiles, we have pics, and we get lots of emails from others, too. So it really seems to be a non-issue.
This isn't a porn movie, it's real life. And in real life bodies aren't perpetually 25. People get older, they have kids, they gain weight, they get stretch marks, and gravity takes effect. It's the diversity that makes it fun.
Mr. WS
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