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Old 06-28-2004, 05:00 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Default Re: Full-Swap vs. Soft-Swinging

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Originally Posted by chickadiva
Another interesting but related phenomenon that has us a little more cautious and questioning with those who say "soft swap only" and "not into full swap" is the couple searching for a bi-fem but contacting couples with bi-fems (hinted at in my earlier post). After a few chats and a meeting, just when we think all is going well, we hear from them that "she doesn't do anything with other men" or "she has no desire for a man other than her own" but they assume I (female half) will still play with both of them.[/i]
We have fortunately not run into this. I don't know how we'd handle it, but it wouldn't be something we'd do. We have talked about doing a MFF with another couple - with the males taking turns. But we've never met a couple so arrogant and linguistically challenged that they think there is anyway that we, as a couple, would go for that.

I have no idea how you could get in a heated arguement with them, though. You really wouldn't have to say much more than "moron" to cover the issue completely.

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