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Old 06-27-2004, 09:27 PM   #17 (permalink)
Olympia221
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Default Re: Full-Swap vs. Soft-Swinging

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Originally Posted by chickadiva
We're also full swap, but we've done soft as a lead-in on occasion. We don't rule out soft-swap couples, particularly those that say they'd be open to considering full after some time passes.


Although we're newbies who have only had the FMF, we're still exploring what works best for us. So for now, Chickadiva defined us perfectly: a soft swap couple that is open to a full swap after time and I (the female half here) and the other woman are both comfortable with moving on. I need to trust the other male first, and I am just one of those people that have had past relationships that now make me a little wary. I love men, but I do want to feel wholly comfortable first, then I feel I can truly get into the action and enjoy myself and give more to my partner.
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