The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Finding Third for MFM and making sure he's not a crazy

06-26-2004, 12:42 AM

Posted by EternalySingle:

"As for taking him to a party, now is not the time. Not until you get an idea of what he is willing to do sexually."

I was under the impression this was a vanilla party. Not a sex or swinger party.

If it is a vanilla party I see no problem having him come along. It will get everyone more comfortable getting to know each other.

If it is a sex or swinger party then I will have to agree that would be a bad idea.

As far as flirting......

We have found that mrs naughty flirting with the single male while I am around gives him the signal that I am cool with it. She doesnt just jump in his lap when we walk in the door but progressively turns it up as the night progresses. Plus its just damn fun!!!

But i do let him know that I am cool with the whole situation.

06-26-2004, 12:42 AM	#22 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here Posted by EternalySingle: "As for taking him to a party, now is not the time. Not until you get an idea of what he is willing to do sexually." I was under the impression this was a vanilla party. Not a sex or swinger party. If it is a vanilla party I see no problem having him come along. It will get everyone more comfortable getting to know each other. If it is a sex or swinger party then I will have to agree that would be a bad idea. As far as flirting...... We have found that mrs naughty flirting with the single male while I am around gives him the signal that I am cool with it. She doesnt just jump in his lap when we walk in the door but progressively turns it up as the night progresses. Plus its just damn fun!!! But i do let him know that I am cool with the whole situation. Last edited by Mr&Mrs-naughty : 06-26-2004 at 12:46 AM.