[EternallySingle]

I've been this guy, everyone. Even if he is active in swinging, he is not thinking anywhere along the lines that mrs. akamgaxoxo is looking to swing with him. He's probably thinking (hoping) that she and her husband is sizing him up for a single female friend that they have, or maybe his or her sister or cousin.

As for taking him to a party, now is not the time. Not until you get an idea of what he is willing to do sexually. While most men fantasize about a situation like this, they also fantasize about flying around the world in a balloon or riding on the space shuttle. But how many would do it if given the actual chance? Not many. So, your next step is to cut back the flirting a bit and start the nuts and bolts sex and relationship talk. First the husband, then together, then the wife. That way he will start to know what is going on and have a chance to tell you "no way in this lifetime" before you say something you can't take back.

Just my opinion, however.