It seems like your wife is in a bit of denial...your relationship should come first and it's not.That being said,she definitely has an emotional attachment to this other dude.Bottom line:If one spouse has a problem...those feelings should be respected and taken into consideration.You went into this lifestlye as a couple,-a united front- so to speak...that's the way it should stay.If you absolutely could not handle her flying solo...she should've stopped doing it! It's the whole temptation thing, and forbidden fruit is always the sweetest,
yada yada! We wish you lots of luck!!
