Ok, he wears a hearing aid, but can speak relatively clearly at least in my opinion. Kinda soft like a deaf person would speak. (we live in a large deaf community here). Anyhow....some of our conversation has lead to wanting to learning sign lang. and also flirting. You know the nicest of things, like you have great eyes, really nice to see you. I did come out and ask if he was married. He says "no". He does know that we are married and that I talked to my husband about talking with him. But I did not lay out my cards on the table as to being interested in a mfm situation. Which is my next step, but I still would prefer that my hubby talks with him more first. I think the next time I go out I will take the old hubby with me and see if they hit it off and chat it up. Tho I am still not sure if we should send a subtle message out about the three of us getting together or not.
I will also take note in regards to strange and uncomforable conversations like you mentioned. Those would be a
for us too.