How deaf is slightly deaf? I dont think it matters. if you and your hubby do not consider that an issue, than it isnt. IMHO.
Does this guy know you are married and him and hubby will both be giving you attention at the same time?
Also if he is from your local area (or even if he wasnt) Do not let him know where you live until after you have met to play a few times and this person is not only a play partner but also a friend.
Some males will start off not as weirdos but can turn that way quickly after a play experience.
The last single male we were with (exluding the gang bang last weekend
) werided out on us. But not till after we palyed. Mrs naughty started getting IMs from him and calls on her cell telling her how beautiful she was and how incredibly sexy she was. Which is all true and its not the fact that he was telling her that. But the way he was doing it came off in a stalker fashion. Then I was talking to him on IM and he told me he had a Crush on Mrs naughty.
That was a definate no no
So even after you play you still have to be carefull how much info you give out about yourself. It usualy takes a few meetings and some of those meetings will not include sex before we give a closer glimpse into our personal lives.