[akamgaxoxo]

My husband and I are newbies to the lifestyle and very interested in getting started. Though we have couple friends that might be interested in going into this with us, we are mainly interested in mfm experience first. I have been lightly flirting and throwing the idea around to someone that I do not know a whole lot about. My hubby and I have a good feeling about him however we are very nervous about taking the next step and inviting him in so to speak. I think our biggest fear is that he may be a weirdo nut. Not that we have gotten that feeling, but what do you do? Would the next step be to invite him out for drinks and dancing and get a feel of the situation? And just what kinds of tell tale signs would we be looking for that might tip us off that something is up? Any advice would be great!