Our first experience was at a club. I had read an article about swinging and was so naive... I did not believe that places like that actually existed in our community. I did a google search on adult clubs in our area and found not 1 but 3 local on premise clubs!
We initially went to visit one out of curiosity. After several months of continuing to visit the club, flirting, dancing, loads of conversation between hubby and myself we had our first soft swing at the club. That lead to several more soft swing or same room experiences and me realizing I enjoyed F/F play. Eventually we invited a couple we had met at the club to the house for dinner and ended up doing a full swap. Now we even have a profile on SN. We still consider ourselves fairly new and inexperienced after a year and a half though, but we're still having fun and have come a long way from the couple who went to the club out of curiosity
Just had our 3rd full swap experience this past weekend.
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