Re: Full-Swap vs. Soft-Swinging we are a full swap couple. but we have done soft swap although we didnt really enjoy as much as full swap. Beings that we are pretty comfy with almost everything (not m/m stuff) we usually let the other couple set the limits. we have no jelousy problems with anything done, as long as nothing painful. We do prefer full swap and with couples who have done so also. We also prefer more experianced couples over newbies...nothing wrong with newbies but .....we have had some newbies that have freaked out after the fact although they told us they wanted it all, and didnt speak up to say they didnt feel right about something.
my 2 cents for the day! |