Dear C-
Maybe I'm missing something here. And I suppose, not being a man, maybe I don't understand.
But it seems to me that what your "member" is telling you is that your wife is an intrinsic part of what sex is all about for you. And that without her, it just isn't appealing to you.
So as long as same room activity is what appeals to you both, I just don't see that you
have a problem.
But perhaps I'm not fully understanding. Unfortunately, since you are unregistered, you can't clarify the situation for me since unregistered members cannot respond, even to a thread they started.
Perhaps you would consider registering so that you can more fully explain
why this is a problem.
WR
