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Hi, this is related to the post below, "Goin soft during"...

We recently had a great 1st swinging experience at which we decided that we'd swop partners fully... I (the guy) enjoyed myself thoroughly, but when it came round to penetration mr willy just wouldn't get erect... After a while, I did obtain a something like half erection, but as soon as we started penetration it faded away to nothing within seconds... My wife had a great time to that point, and I enjoyed watching her enjoying herself, but for some reason it seems performance anxiety got the better of me...

Anyway, later that night everything was back to normal with my wife, and I've not had any problems since, except for the fact that I now seem not to get erections when my wife isn't around, which is strange since I've been walking around with them for the past 20 years or so without any form of stimulation. It won't happen no matter what fantasy I think of, nothing short of porn will get me to an erection.

I know I should just relax, and everything will be fine, but how do u do that?

Thanks all

C