[ALilOEverything]

We asked the couple we went out with up front. Since we were all looking for friendship as well we all agreed that it wasn't a problem talking about the vanilla side of our friendship. I wouldn't have a problem if they asked me if it's okay to mention the friendship, in fact this weekend I met their vanilla friends and we all went out together. If it was purely sex, no friendship, I wouldn't ask and I wouldn't tell. So in other words I would ask the other couple what they were okay with.