Sorry for not replying sooner... I've been away from the board for a while... We're very new to the lifestyle, although we have been members of a local swingers club for about 3 years now... I'm shy by nature, so we don't exactly rush into anything.. LOL Yeah, we should have had more conversation with this lady before things progressed, but there SEEMED to be a clear understanding... won't rule out trying again, but next time I'll know more before I open myself up to that kind of humiliation.... She was very experienced... I would have thought that she would have at least tried to make it a bit easier for me, given that she knew this was a first for me... I would hope that all of you out there who have more experience would help out the newbies when you are in a "situation" with one of us... Wish me luck the next go-round !! |