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FOOTLOVER69 · 06-17-2004, 12:17 PM

No actually I am not equating emotion into it. I just think I would want someone to please my SO and not be in it to get their rocks off. I knew someone that was seeing 4 different people a week. Sometimes even couple. Every week it was a new bunch of people. I didn't classify her as a swinger but a slut. Sorry but swingers should have a mutual respect for those they are trying to please in bed. If I wanted unattached sex I could get us an escort. A 14 might know how to drive a car but that does not mean they are equipped to do so intelligently all the time. I know for some of you I am beating a dead bird and you still won't see what I am getting at. So I guess you believe someone sticking it to your wife for 5-10 minutes and not caring how she felt is fine. Sex is only sex in your book. This means they should really not give a crap about your feeling.
Last thing I will bother saying on this subject, is this. These so called swingers at 17-18 are also having sex at age 12-14. Now I am not being a prude about this otherwise I wouldn't be in the lifestyle. This means there is something WRONG in their lives that they are having sex when they are in 6th grade. I know some people won't like this opinion, but if you are that young and having sex on a regular basis then their is something disfunctional in your life.
In my book I guess all I'm looking for is people who understand what it means for someone to share their bed with a stranger. If you want straight sex, go for it. I don't believe anyone so young knows or cares if it is a mutually satisfying experience. Not old enough to drink, DEFINATELY NOT old enough to swing.

06-17-2004, 12:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
FOOTLOVER69 Active Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 14 Location: Kissimmee, FL Status: couple	Re: How young is too young?? No actually I am not equating emotion into it. I just think I would want someone to please my SO and not be in it to get their rocks off. I knew someone that was seeing 4 different people a week. Sometimes even couple. Every week it was a new bunch of people. I didn't classify her as a swinger but a slut. Sorry but swingers should have a mutual respect for those they are trying to please in bed. If I wanted unattached sex I could get us an escort. A 14 might know how to drive a car but that does not mean they are equipped to do so intelligently all the time. I know for some of you I am beating a dead bird and you still won't see what I am getting at. So I guess you believe someone sticking it to your wife for 5-10 minutes and not caring how she felt is fine. Sex is only sex in your book. This means they should really not give a crap about your feeling. Last thing I will bother saying on this subject, is this. These so called swingers at 17-18 are also having sex at age 12-14. Now I am not being a prude about this otherwise I wouldn't be in the lifestyle. This means there is something WRONG in their lives that they are having sex when they are in 6th grade. I know some people won't like this opinion, but if you are that young and having sex on a regular basis then their is something disfunctional in your life. In my book I guess all I'm looking for is people who understand what it means for someone to share their bed with a stranger. If you want straight sex, go for it. I don't believe anyone so young knows or cares if it is a mutually satisfying experience. Not old enough to drink, DEFINATELY NOT old enough to swing.