Our first time ended up as an out and out disaster. The creep tried repeatedly to enter my wife without a condom (despite a clear agreement on both their parts to use them with us), and in fact he actually succeeded in some penetration on two occasions, with my wife ending up in tears after the second. During the traumatic drive home, I was certain that was the start and finish of our swinging adventures, but after leaving it completely up to her, she agreed to try again. Our second time, actually many times with the same couple over a period of several months, went much better. Not perfect, but light years ahead of the first cretins we were with.
Dan |