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DandS · 06-16-2004, 04:55 PM

Left Coast,

Thanks for the clarification. I think I understand your question and would say that yes you should have a veto card but it has to go both ways.

If you are going to play together as a couple you need to make sure both of you are completely comfortable with the other couple. If either one of you is uncomfortable or feeling pressured to do something it could negatively impact your play experience or cause resentment later.

Personally I know that I can tell my husband "I'm not comfortable with this" and even if he is attracted to the other female we will not do anything....no questions asked. Now, we will discuss these situations later and try to determine why one of us was uncomfortable with a given situation, just not in the heat of the moment.

my 2 cents for today, Mrs DandS

06-16-2004, 04:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
DandS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 318 Location: Memphis Status: Married Couple	Re: Do I have a veto card? Left Coast, Thanks for the clarification. I think I understand your question and would say that yes you should have a veto card but it has to go both ways. If you are going to play together as a couple you need to make sure both of you are completely comfortable with the other couple. If either one of you is uncomfortable or feeling pressured to do something it could negatively impact your play experience or cause resentment later. Personally I know that I can tell my husband "I'm not comfortable with this" and even if he is attracted to the other female we will not do anything....no questions asked. Now, we will discuss these situations later and try to determine why one of us was uncomfortable with a given situation, just not in the heat of the moment. my 2 cents for today, Mrs DandS