FliBiNiter,
We have had a couple of not what I would really consider "BAD" experiences. They certainly could be considered less than desirable, but we feel that it was a direct result of our inexperience and a poor choice in partners.
You don't say how long you have been in the lifestyle but indicate that this was your first FMF. If you are totally new, then expect to learn as you go. Don't be afraid to test the waters again so to speak. Who knows the next time could be spectaular!

For us we have learned to be upfront with all of our potential partners so that everyone knows our boundries and expectations. And I will say it took a few times to learn this. Guess we were just either "easy" or "hard headed"! <img border="0" alt="[Fun]" title="" src="graemlins/fun.gif" />
Lori ~ VOTE FOR JULIE TODAY! <img border="0" alt="[Blowjob]" title="" src="graemlins/bj.gif" />