[VegasLee]

Laura and I do not set out looking to play with couples and this is one of the reasons. We feel it is to hard to find two other people that we both can agree on. We do end up with a copule now and then but it just happens and neither of us ever takes one for the team.

At the same time, I have seen her desire guys that I would have never thought she would have interest in yet it is HER choice. I have never thought about using "Veto" power to tell her she can not play with someone.

Even though she is the most important person in my life I do not feel it is my place to tell her what can or can not do.

Do I look out of her safety? Yes, but she has her own sense about people and if she did not feel safe with someone she would not play with them.

She is pretty good at picking out ladies that she knows I would have interest in but I found I suck at doing the same about picking out guys she might like. I know in general what she likes but there is times she gets interested in someone that does not even come close to what I would have picked or her normal tastes in men.

Just because I love her does not mean I rule her.