Hey everyone,
I was going to start a new thread asking about some of these very issues but have been directed to existing threads so often that I just went to search and put in "Zipless"; and this thread is what I got!.
I remember hearing about "Zipless" when I was about 13 or 14, probably E. Jong in Playboy. Don't ask me how I got the issue.
Seemed like alot of fun. Super sexy to find someone who just wanted sex.
The problem comes when you decide that you'd like to do it again (with them).
We just had our 1st exp. with a couple who seemed to just want to have sex and then leave. Literally from our room, without saying goodbye to Fem D (who'd gone to the powder room for a moment. When she came out she asked "where'd they go?")
They told us that they came to that dance and if we wanted to see them again then they'd be there. No e-mail or last names. Maybe, like someone else said, we didn't even get their real first names!
Now the sex was wonderful and they seemed into it but we were left a bit cold when they left. Now I think I understand them more. It was their 1st time after all and they did do a full swap, even though the Mrs. didn't want to kiss :-(.
So we should be happy right? I mean, we want to play the field too, but at least we are willing to accept the fact that we want to know the couples a bit.
I guess it was a little confusing. Anyone else care to give their 2 cents worth about it?
Generally Fem D had thought that we would never be "friends" with any of our fuck buddies, now I think she is comfortable with at least knowing their names & where they're from.
Male D