[TXBLONDIE]

Hello all again,
We really appreciate all the advice and we will keep trudging forward and being patient. To answer "BRADANDJANET" questions, we were supposed to meet a couple that I chatted with online with at a certain swing club and they did not show up. They emailed us the next day and told us they arrived late. We waited for three hours for them and they had our cell numbers. I told them that we understand things happen, but come on, even my teenager calls when he is going to be late. Unfortunately, we did not get their numbers, so we had no way of calling them. We were not rude in responding to their lame excuse, we just wished them luck in their adventure. My husband does also agree with you "Brad" about having an attraction to someone before being able to play with them, but I think he thought I was always trying to find something wrong with women who were more attractive than I was because I might be intimidated. I have set the record straight with him and he understands now that I don't always look at the outside of women or couples for an attraction, alot of an attraction is personality and meeting people on web sites all you have to go on for personality is what they write about themselves and how they write it. I think what really made him understand is when we went to the Austin Bike Rally last year, I hooked up with a woman that was with a gentleman we had met on swingers date club who became a friend. She was not someone my husband expected me to be attracted to and quite frankly, had I seen her picture on the web, I probably would of hit the "no thanks" button as well. We just hit it off and it just went from there. We did not do anything but kiss and dance, and we have not seen her since. Anyhow, like I said, thanks guys for all your advice and we will try to learn to be a little more patient since we don't care much for the swing clubs, this is the only way we have to meet other lifestylers....
once again, THANKS!
Blondie and Mikie