[TXBLONDIE]

Hi everyone,
My husband and I have read many stories, adventures, ideas, do's and don'ts on this board and have learned alot, but after joining a couple of swinger sites, chatting with singles, couples and exchanging pics, even meeting singles and couples, we are about ready to say "enough is enough". My husband "Mikie" and I "Blondie" are best friends and are open with each other sexually. We talk about everything we have done, to everything we fantasize about. I "Blondie" have been with women in my past relationships and even by myself before I met my husband "Mikie". The experiences that I had by myself with other women were great but when my partner at the time was involved it was always a bad experience, either during or afterward. When I met "Mikie" I was truthful about the attraction that I have for women but vowed I would never go there again, even if it was okay with "Mikie" because of my past experiences. Well, after a few years of marriage I finally felt comfortable enough to try to explore that part of my sexuality and I wanted it to involve my husband "Mikie" even if it just meant he watched. He totally was comfortable with that. We did meet a couple that I did have a few encounters with the wife, while both husbands watched and then joined in with their wives. They became a little strange after a while and we broke it off with them. We have met a few other couples since then, but nobody I was interested in being with. We tried the swinging club scene and got stood up! Never been stood up in our life until then. Anyhow, we have become more open about our fantasies and have broadend our boundaries. We have lots of couples and singles that email us they are interested, but either we are not interested or we email them back and let them know we are interested and never hear another word. We feel like we are in highschool again, chasing people. I just took all our pics off SDC and put on there that if anyone is truly interested we would send pics. I guess my question is, are we trying to hard? or not hard enough? Sometimes my husband say's that I am too picky, but shouldn't I be? There have been some sites that we have listed that he is curious about other men and we are open to single men, but it seems that we attract guys that just want to be with me or say they are curious and interested and when we respond we don't hear another word. Guess you could say we are just about ready to say "we give up"!!! Help! We are not an unattractive couple at all and just want to explore our sexual fantasies. Advice please????
Blondie and Mikie