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That would be terrible! We did run across a couple where the male half had posted an ad and then after I emailed discussing what our boundaries he replied he wasn't sure what their boundaries were and he would have to discuss it with his wife. That had already made me leary thinking that should have been discussed a long time ago. Later he got back to me and told me his wife wasn't interested....not just interested with us but with the lifestyle in general. He didn't even bother to tell her and it sounded like it was something she would never do and he needed to just give it up. I wonder if she knew he posted a topless pic of her for the ad... I bet you anything she doesn't even know. I do believe clubs could be a whole lot less complicated, but I still like the idea of friends with frills. We've met one great couple and that makes it all worth it so far.