It has only been since deciding to swing and beginning our search for playmates, that I have had to think--with any seriousness--about what type of man is attractive to me.
I search through three swing sites; I feel like I'm catalogue shopping in a way,
it feels very weird.
I require pictures because looks are important to me. I get a feel for a man by the expression on his face. Through a picture I can see if he's clean or grungy. (I have no interest in knowing what a guys cock looks like ahead of time.) I like a man who looks approachable--his smile is sooo important to me. He needs to be well-groomed. He can have long hair or be bald, he can be about any height or build as long as it all works well together. If he looks too physically perfect I'm intimidated, although that feeling disappears in an instant once I see he isn't arrogant and shows an interest in me. That's the physical part.
Now for the personality. A man's got to be able to keep me smiling. I love a funny guy. Not forced funny, natural funny. I like spontaneous men who are comfortable with themselves and genuine. Also well-mannerd, witty, intelligent, open-minded, and able to carry a conversation. I imagine--when I finally swing--I'll have my most fun with guys who are a bit off the wall. Remember Bulldog on Frasier? I could have a blast with that guy. Never in a million years would I marry a guy like that, but to play with he'd be great!
LM