[soflafun]

My wife and I have been in the "lifestyles" for about 8 years , more as a hobby then as a lifestyle. There has always been total trust and understanding between us. We started out with a good friend of mine for mfm fun and we did this about a dozen times in about 5 yrs. other than that we are exclusive to on-premises clubs, we like the anonymity that they provide. Our rules are: we go as wild as each of us feels on any particular night . My wife enjoys women more than men, that's not to say that she hasn't had plenty of guy encounters. I love to watch her play with woman and she loves to see me with other women. We usually stay within touching distance of each other and had had very much fun, exiting experiences and not a single bad one. We usually meet couples in the bar/dance area but we rarely end up with them. More often we walk into the play areas just her and I, look around, find something that we both like and approach them in the limited lighting. Fortunately we're an attractive couple so we haven't experienced rejection, also, the fact that we live in South Florida makes it more relaxing. Many of the people that we talked ( after we played) with are out-of-towner with vacationers attitude; get wild. . We sometimes talk of meeting a couple that we can form some kind of friendship in and out of bed but never acted upon . Like I said, it's not our lifestyle is just something we do on weekend and we're happy to leave it there.