Well I'm going to be vague too but for me to be attractive to a man he has to be masculine and to be attracted to a woman she has to be feminine. Example, I never understood a woman being a lesbian and going for butch women who look more like men, I would think they would want the feminine woman. Maybe someone could enlighten me on that? I prefer a woman to look and act completely feminine, that doesn't mean she needs to be barbie (or he need to be ken), just that she's feminine. How a person carries themselves is important too, I prefer people who are confident and outgoing and I can usually pick up on that right away. But after that if they can't carry on a decent conversation then all the attraction will be lost. I've also found that people who I wasn't attracted to initially becomes very attractive to me after getting to know them. There's something about intelligent free thinking people that makes me want to get in their pants
