[PLZUREZONE]

I happen to be in what some people have described as a "poly" relationship. I really dont consider us to be poly since hubby does play with alot more people, but I am a part of a Triad (MFM). I have a husband and a b/f. (Both are straight BTW, They always like that disclaimer, lol) I was not feeling quite satisfied sexually just "swinging" when we were meeting many different couples. Why...well that's a completely different thread, and I won't go into it here....but when I met my b/f he just seemed to be a perfect match for me sexually and he and hubby got along so well it just turned into what we have now. It was not planned, nor did it happen over night. We have infact been a triad for nearly 2 years, and many people in the swinging community know us well. Hubby is very "adventurous" and enjoys meeting couples and ladies, and I am completely comfortable with that....me...well I just prefer to keep it to my two men and a pretty female from time to time. Its not for everyone no, but it does work for us...and It's all about what makes you feel good, right? I decided long ago, there is no right and wrong in swinging as long as there is HONESTY between all involved, be it "poly" or "swinging" It's about what makes you feel good.