I discontinued wearing panties twenty-some years ago despite having many lovely "matched sets" of bras and panties.
Reason? Welp, couldn't help but notice every pair I put on suddenly was hugely stretched out of shape and weren't fitting well any more. Finally discovered that my ex had developed a fondness for wearing them himself. He liked the way they felt on him. And it gave him a thrill all day to have the "fear factor" of discovery by others.
I suggested that we should buy him some in a more appropriate size as he DID outweigh me about 1 and 1/2 to 1. He nixed the idea, saying it "just wouldn't be the same" for him.
I finally gave up on the panties since they just didn't fit me any more. I tried moving them to his underwear drawer so we could both acknowledge they were now his, but that TOO lessened his fun. They had to be stored in my underwear drawer since that was part of it for him.
But from that point on, they were HIS. And I've never spent money for them again, even after I divorced him. Surrender
I
tried giving him the panties as part of our divorce settlement.
WR
