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Forum: Making the First Swinger Move

How do you approach other swingers you are interested in getting to know and having sex with?


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  1. trouble moving things along

    by redzhubby, 09-26-2013 11:06 AM
    getting started
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  2. Question How to Progress Things Along

    by Enigma346, 05-22-2013 08:22 AM
    getting started, swing-curious
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  3. [A] Foreplay/Ice breaker Question

    by M&S, 08-15-2012 12:57 PM
    foreplay, ice breakers
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  4. Not Sure On The Game Plan

    by fresnocouple, 02-21-2012 03:57 AM
    drinking and swinging, making the first move, rules and boundaries, shyness
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  5. How do I know it's the right time?

    by Danielle87, 10-15-2011 03:38 PM
    fmf, getting started, swing-curious
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  6. Unhappy Friends without the benefits

    by shy kitty, 05-16-2011 06:59 PM
    disappointing, getting started
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  7. First Step

    by MyWife&Me, 07-31-2010 04:45 PM
    first time, mfm
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  8. Signs of unapproachability

    by JustAskJulie, 04-28-2009 03:13 PM
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    approaching others, showing interest, swinger clubs
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  9. Cool Wall-flowers in need of HELP!

    by hppycpleus, 01-31-2010 11:50 PM
    approaching others, ice breakers, shyness
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  10. How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?

    by UnicornChasers, 08-22-2009 11:30 PM
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  11. Men: Do you approach women?

    by JustAskJulie, 02-19-2009 05:06 PM
    approaching others
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  12. Any advice for couples with a straight female?

    by arvcpl, 12-20-2008 12:27 PM
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    connection, intimidation, straight female
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  13. Second Choice or backup plan

    by JustAskJulie, 12-01-2008 12:35 AM
    second chance, showing interest
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  14. Breaking the Ice

    by Alura, 10-09-2008 11:53 AM
    ice breakers
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  15. The Pickup Artist

    by JustAskJulie, 10-22-2008 11:09 AM
    approaching others, swinging on tv
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  16. Initiating Conversation

    by K&JIntimates, 10-14-2008 10:35 AM
    communication, ice breakers
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  17. Question What Do We Say to close the deal?

    by JM153, 03-18-2006 12:31 AM
    making the first move
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  18. How likely are you to approach?

    by JustAskJulie, 06-05-2008 04:14 PM
    approaching others
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  19. Cool Cock Blocked!

    by Styles-N-Heidi, 02-29-2008 11:33 PM
    attraction, cock blocking, different pace, discretion, experienced, playing with newbies
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  20. Remembering names????

    by TNT, 03-24-2004 11:20 AM
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    meeting others, remembering names
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  21. Getting things started

    by talltim123, 01-19-2008 04:18 PM
    making the first move
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  22. Conversation Starters

    by JustAskJulie, 04-08-2004 11:12 PM
    communication, ice breakers
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  23. Poll Poll: Who is the seducer, the woman or man?

    by Sweetdevil, 08-18-2002 12:02 PM
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    approaching others, seduction
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  24. Good ice breaker or opener to sex..

    by Tojo99, 05-12-2006 11:15 PM
    ice breakers
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  25. Bartering sex?

    by J&RNNJ, 06-18-2007 07:25 AM
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    approaching others, bartering for sex, swinging for money
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  26. How crude is too crude?

    by Spoomonkey, 01-24-2007 08:00 AM
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    approaching others, changed mind, rude behavior, turn offs
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  27. Approaching People at clubs

    by JustAskJulie, 01-10-2007 11:15 PM
    approaching others
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  28. How to ask would you like to???

    by twoartists, 11-09-2006 03:03 PM
    making the first move
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  29. Not sure how to ask guys for MFM

    by itbus69, 10-17-2006 05:21 AM
    approaching others, single males, threesome
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