Our first House Party coming up

Yup, that's right. We have never been to one before but we won't be able to say that after this weekend.

All we know so far is there will be about 6 other couples there plus the couple that invited us (it's their house) we'll call them Tim & Judy . They are pretty experienced with this sort of thing.

The only people we will know there is Tim & Judy and we met them at our favorite swingers club.

They said we know at least one other couple that will be there from the club but their names do not sound familiar.

Not really sure what to expect but I'm sure whatever happens it will be fun!!

I am very interested to learn how it will go, especially whether you like it better than the clubs.

For as long as I've been on this board I haven't seen too much written about house parties.

Did the couple give you some "helpful hints" to prepare you?

Who's more nervous, Mr or Mrs Naughty?

I'm excited for you!

LM

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Did the couple give you some "helpful hints" to prepare you?

Yes they did. They said to bring a bathing suit if we are shy .

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Who's more nervous, Mr or Mrs Naughty?

Actually I dont feel nervous. Every "First time" thing we have done so far has turned pretty good .

We haven't been to a "house party" but we've been to a party house.[The Erotic Zone in Dallas, I highly recommend it!] It is in a private residence but set up for a lot of fun with a dance floor with a pole and various bedrooms set up for varying degrees of privacy. It was a wonderful experience but it was helpful that we knew 3 couples who attended that night already. It didn't take long for clothes to come off {peer pressure is an amazing force }

and the dance floor proved very to be a sexy way to get things cooking.

I'm not sure if the people who have the house are active on this board but if you PM me I'll give you their contacts in SLS.

Suzy and her man!

We do have a small bit of advice for your house party. At smaller parties such as this upcoming one, there is a tendency for the chit-chat to run a little long. We remember from this thread that you are not shy about “breaking the ice” with other couples, so be prepared to use some of your strategies for doing so. Have fun!

Oh how exciting! I'm looking forward to hearing how it went. We were invited to our first house party this weekend but since I have to work we declined. We are going to our first on-premise in a couple weeks but part of me thinks a house party would be even more of a blast. Have fun!

My bride and I prefer house parties to clubs. It is more social and more spontaneous for us. Things we like. We don't go to parties with any expectations of the evening other than good drink and company. If something happens with others, great. If it doesn't, just as great. We had a good time partying anyway. And we've been to those that we've had action and those we haven't.

Make sure going in you know what is cool and what isn't with the hosts. What rooms are off limits for private sessions, where it's okay to smoke, where it's okay to be naked (don't want to piss-off the neighbors), etc.

Other than that... HAVE FUN!

Mr. WS

Most of our swinging is at private parties including those that we host. We find it more easy going and everyone socializes more. The only thing that I can add to this thread is that at most private parties everyone knows everyone else except the new people. If everyone else plays a certain way there is the tendancy to assume that you play the same as they do. If you have rules don't assume that you will be asked about them first. I would suggest asking the hosts how the play is generally structured. For instance if you only swing as a couple with another committed couple in the same room and everyone else plays alone wherever there is mattress space, then you will need to make your requirements known very early before all the couples are gone and only unrelated singles are left. If you require condoms make sure your partner knows that before going off with them. Don't ambush them at the last minute. Don't be afraid to go over and chat with someone. It's very easy to sit on the couch until you notice that everyone is gone (They may disappear quickly once the party gets started) .

As as side note to Greg and Sheryl's comment about the never ending social hour this is indeed true. People will talk all night if you let them. There is a basic rule of hosting. "It's the host's job to start the party". Since I usually know the hosts I don't have any problem reminding them of their obligations but it's a bit tough to speak up when you don't know them .

Greg

Thanks everyone for the advice.

We are going with the expectations of meeting new people and enjoyimg ourselves.

If we swing, we swing. if we don't, we don't.

I would also love to hear about the over all exp.

Oh and I hope you have / had a great time.

We two are heading out to a house party tonight! This will be just our second one and we are really looking forward to it.

Our first one was about a month ago and luckily we only had about 30 minutes of chit chat before everyone was naked. One lady was so ready to play she kicked things off while the host was pulling out the air mattresses

Have a great time!

WOW!!!!!

We went, we saw, we had a GREAT time!!!!

We tried something we had never tried before...Bondage.

I have always thought of bondage as something rough and painful. We found out last night that isn't true.

At the house party we went to there was a Bondage instructor there who gave a demo on one of the ladies at the party. Mrs naughty found it to be really erotic and it turned her on. After the demo was over I told the guy "Mrs naughty wants to know when its her turn."

He went over and talked to her for a bit and decided to go for it.

So we went in the house and put on some erotic music. He slowly undressed her and he began to tie her up. He did this in a very sensual, slow, seducing kind of way. Nothing harsh or painful just slow and methodical. The whole process took about 45 minutes kissing her and massaging her through the process. After he had finished his magic Mrs naughty was lying on some pillows and we began to have sex. The instructor was just kind of standing by so I asked him if he wanted to join in. He said he would LOVE to, so he did. The both of us worked together giving mrs naughty pleasure. When we were finished and untied Mrs Naughty she was lying there trembling through out her entire body to the point she couldnt move. Honest to God.

It was completely erotic and to see mrs naughty experience such pleasure was undescribeable. I just can't put it into words. facelick

It was an awesome experience and needless to say I am heading out today to buy a blow up doll and some rope to practice my knots....

Sounds like FUN!

How do we contact a bondage instructor??? Sounds like tons of fun ?

beep... we cant come to the phone right now. One of us has tied up the other one. Please leave your name and number and we will get back to you as soon as we can get loose..... beep..

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How do we contact a bondage instructor??? Sounds like tons of fun ?

Not sure. We just met this guy at the party. I guess searching the web might lead you to someone in your area.

I also prefer Houe parties compared to clubs.