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Is it easier to find a well hung guy (8+ inches) or a unicorn?  

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  1. 1. Is it easier to find a well hung guy (8+ inches) or a unicorn?

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Just for fun. Another thread got me to wondering which is more difficult to find; a well hung (8+ inches) guy or a unicorn?

 

Based on the stats posted in the other thread, 8+ inches occurs in about 1/1000 men. I am not sure there is a statistical analysis of the unicorn population. But I doubt we have met a 1000 different swinging males (maybe though) and we have met several unicorns.

 

We have not met a guy that we KNOW is 8+, although a few we have met claim to be, they haven't caught my wife's fancy, so we have no proof.

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I've been with one guy who I'm certain was 8+ and had the girth to go with it (ouch!). We've ever had a true unicorn (only married friends playing alone) but I was a unicorn once so a unicorn seems easier to find.

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A lot of males in profiles claim to have 8 inches or more, but we believe most of them are starting their measurement at the taint, since the number Mrs two4you has visually and/or physically verified can be counted on one hand, without using the thumb.

 

The unicorn is more common in our area.

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That is a good question, but looking at all of the porn videos, it seems that there are some 8+ inchers around. I personally have two friends who are. A unicorn is an unknown to me...

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LOL.

 

Two points.

Having 8 inches at home is cheating. ;) I should have said how many have you encountered other than your spouse.

 

Unicorns that let you ride, too funny, but so true. Of the unicorns we have met I have only known one that has been verified as playing. I spoke with her in the company of another couple she played with, so unless they both lied, it was clear by their comments she certainly played. Of the others I have yet to see them leave a party with anyone, but then again I generally don't pay too much attention to people leaving a party and with whom.

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Hmm.. Hard to say. We haven't had any trouble finding either for that matter. Mrs Tom doesnt have a preference for larger men per se, but still has encountered some. Even did an MFM with one, and he was definitely 8+, guessing more like 10. He never made any mention of his size beforehand either. Too bad his skills stopped with his size, he really seemed to rest on the laurels of it and didnt have much else to offer.

 

 

I see it like this. Unicorns are around, in our experience they tend to want to find you, not you find them. Or maybe have the females contact them. And 8+" guys are around too, but you need to sort through some fakes to find them. All it takes is time, and some word of mouth really helps too.

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We are strictly mfm since I'm bi and she is straight. Our second mfm experience was a guy who didnt mention his size, was very personable and easy to like. When we started playing, I was shocked to say the least. I'm average so seeing one nearly 9" and thick as a pop can was an eye opener, plus, hard as a rock. Well, It's a good think I love seeing the wife pleased. We still see him as often as we can. Fantastic, generous, very long lasting lover. (I suspect Viagra but who cares lol)

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I've turned down a few men because of them having too large of a penis. A frequent play partner of ours when we first started out was a good 8-9" and had rather large girth. He was a very skilled lover, but I NEVER came from intercourse (compared to being with a man of 6-7" where I cum more often than not during intercourse). The size of it does nothing for me since it doesn't hit the right spots - I enjoyed sex, but wouldn't orgasm from it.. We've only successfully found one single woman who plays. Like others have said, there are plenty of women who play solo, but not a true unicorn (single girl). So in my experience - definitely easier to find well hung.

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There are a surprising number of Unicorns out there , albeit moreso in the general population than in swinger venues.

 

For the most part guys will purport themselves to be about 1.5in less than reality. Kinda like at one time when I was horse shopping , looking for a horse of certain size on purpose. I kept think I was loosing touch at eyeballing , until I simmply carried a horse tape , and just measured everything. Yup most were about 1.5in less than claimed (ht to withers) .

 

I was always concerned about not exagerating myself , so I rounded down to nearest whole inch.

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There are a surprising number of Unicorns out there , albeit moreso in the general population than in swinger venues.

 

For the most part guys will purport themselves to be about 1.5in less than reality. Kinda like at one time when I was horse shopping , looking for a horse of certain size on purpose. I kept think I was loosing touch at eyeballing , until I simmply carried a horse tape , and just measured everything. Yup most were about 1.5in less than claimed (ht to withers) .

 

I was always concerned about not exagerating myself , so I rounded down to nearest whole inch.

 

 

the ones that usually bark the loudest about their penis size are usually the smallest acording to my better half

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