Were so new we don't even know where to start.
Last year, wife comes to me about a guy she has been "getting to know" online. They just swapped pictures. Find out they have talked for over a year and got feelings for each other. She tells me about it and the LS of polyamory. I say ok, research it and joined this site under the name Scvette01. I left for work training at the beginning of this year, and the LS was put on pause.
I returned this past June and after things have settled down we started talking about it again. This time the discussions have gotten deeper, more intimate and revealing. I basically told her, that I would like to have her in a MFM and she told me that she doesn't have a problem me being with another female, either a FFM or my her not present at all.
So here we are, new to the scene, have NO friends that are into this LS, and have no clue on where to go to meet like minded people.
Now granted we are going to be nervous at any 1st get together, even if we just start with same room sex. But whats is the best way to start and not be overwhelmed right away.
There are 2 locally know adult couple clubs, not in the best area, that always have things going on. Are those safe for newbies, I don't really want to walk into a orgy of some sort.
Also, finding a single female for our date night, is that even possible? My wife isn't Bi, but has kissed a gf of hers( both intoxicated) and has mentioned bi curious play if she had a couple of drinks first to ease her nerves.
So much has come open in the past few weeks its very overwhelming but also a turn out at the same time. Our sex life has jumped big time since all this as come out.
Thanks for listening
forgot to mention, we are on Swing Lifestyle as Aladyandhim