So since my last posts, we have not tried anything, we took a little break from it.
We have wrote back and forth with a few couples, but none of them seem too serious. (whats up with that)
Today we got an email on SLS. From a couple that is "technically inept" and couldnt figure out yahoo.
I had to look back to find their photo, then I realized it was a couple I had no interest in. He is very short, she is heavier than he is, and he is built like a teenager. Oh and by the sunken in look to his eyes looks like a druggie. How many men weigh 135? Something I am very not into.
But even though I relayed these feelings to my SO he seemed to forget what I said, and contacted them again.
They wrote back and sent the phone number today and when I told my SO they were people I was not interested in, he got a little mad, and told me if he leaves it up to me we won't ever play.
Well when I left it up to him, I never got to play anyway as the guys had ED or a tiny penis. It was all about the girls who were "bi" only to entertain their men, not really into it. Loss on both sides, as the women are always 150% into him as he is very attractive, and the men they were attached to ... not so much if at all.
Am I wrong not to want to play with someone I wouldn't play with outside swinging? Am I wrong to expect to be put into a situation I would enjoy?
It also comes down to 90% of the profiles featuring photos of the woman, and getting photos of the guys requires WORK. Sometimes 3 or 4 emails before I get one terrible, blurry or old photos. Also since I have taken on doing a good part of the searching, the men seem very put off by this, and only want to talk to my man. Not me. Is it just that there are a lot of fakers, and they feel I am going to figure them out faster?
Guys I beg of you, be honest, with others and yourselves! Please post pics, as if you are in this together you should BOTH have photos of yourselves on your profile!
This makes it easier for all parties involved.
...Still seeking our mutually attractive couple, I am starting to maybe believe they don't exist!