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I black. So, I have to depend upon statistics. HA HAH A
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For the record, the guy that I referred to was white, and it wasn't just his size that made the guy an incredible lover....but I do agree with the stereotype that most black men are bigger than white. But we're getting off topic!
Someone else here can give you inch statistics, but my rule "of thumb" would be if my hand has problems gripping it, it's huge! If it's longer than what will go in me, it's huge! And put that some men really are that big on the list of things I never knew until I started swinging thread.
But she also states like most women that there is so much more to it than the size. She also said she would not want to have to take a big cock everyday. But she sure likes to have them every now and then.
She likes this one guy that plays with her. He has a long cock, kind of skinny and never gets really hard. He can fuck her and bend it up to rub her clit at the same time. She just loves the way he fucks her.
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Chicup....Before we got into swinging, I would have agreed with you. Now that I've experienced some of whom is out there I have to say---I've seen and felt way too many that really won't fit into a regular sized condom!
They are only a small % of the population though.
XL condoms are not being marketed to those men, there are not enough of them to make it worth the effort financially, I'm saying they are being marketed to make average men feel better about buying them.
Chicup, you may be right about marketing, but when I wear a regular condom I lose my hard on. My dick is not longer than normal (6-7") but is wide enough that the "squeeze" is uncomfortable. I've tried the experiment several times. I don't think it's all in my head...the head with the brain, that is.
i enjoy a large cock , have had a few that i will not do anal with , . some can be painfull , but have found a few guys that understand this and make it enjoyable . incredible somtime . but if they are just too big , i enjoy stroking and sucking on them to get them off
XYZZY07----You sound like you fit the demographic my original post was intended for....so tell me, are there things women won't do with you because of your size?
Chicup, I do know the absolutely stallion-sized guy brought his own condoms with him....wasn't using anything the club offered him, but he did have some that fit him.
Mr. Ivory here. I concur with xyzzy07 about "regular" condoms. They bunch up on me and deaden all sensation. Luckily, I found an amazing condom called "Pleasure Plus" that works really well. It's not just for well-endowed men, but it works well for those of us who have the "bunching" problem.
As for the other part of screaminggood's original post, I'll tell you if anal is a problem as soon as any swing partner offers anal. That hasn't been on the table with anyone we've met. Is anal common among swingers?
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We don't do anal and our limited contact with those that were open about doing it all had very poorly endowed males. Our sample size is only two but I don't think its a coincidence.