View Poll Results: If I met someone from this site and "hooked up"...

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  • I'd want to tell everyone who it was

    3 1.65%
  • I'd keep it to myself

    119 65.38%
  • I might post about meeting them but I'd leave the details to imagination

    47 25.82%
  • I don't know/ Other - Please explain.

    13 7.14%
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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    no, we will never give names of who we have had sex with

    we ask the same in return.

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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    We've had a lot of banter in the Meet Up forum about the fun that was had at any particular Meet Up, but I'm unaware of any post that said, "We had sex with Mr. & Mrs. Goodlay, and it was great!"

    There have been a lot of well-deserved compliments. There have been posts such as, "We went to the rattlesnake races with Mr. & Mrs. TastyCreme..." I see nothing wrong with either.

    I've posted about some sexual experiences but have always used aliases for our partners, if any names at all.

    I guess I'm saying I don't understand this thread. Never should anyone post specific sexual events and use real names or anything that might give a clue to who the folks are, whether they post on this board or not.

    Mr. Alura
    "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it."
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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    No. We may say something like, "we didnt have any playtime (our lingo for swap) at that party or convention..." or "wow, that party or convention was one wild time!". We just wouldn't name names.

    This is one reason why I'm having a bit of a problem writing a story about the 3 day house party we went to. Let's just say, "Fun was had by all".

    Mrs. D

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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    I answered "other". I totally agree that discretion is the better part of valor.

    That said . . . I have described experiences in my posts for the purpose of answering someone's question. Some of those experiences may or may not have involved other board members here. If anything was said that was a "give away", it was unintentional.

    I do hope to someday meet some more folks from this board, though. Ya'll seem like a lot of fun.

    ~Mrs. Sweet =)
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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    I have met several couples that said they enjoy this board and some of them, I don't even know their screen names. I've also told new friends about this board and some of them have posted here. This is too valuable of a resource to be quiet about it.

    When we're talking about our house party friends to other party friends, we are comfortable using names. But otherwise, I avoid using names or specifics that would "out" folks against their preferences. I might mention that I know someone when asked, but much more than that is basic indescretion.
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    I would probably post about meeting other board members...but no details about any playtime if it took place.

    There are plenty of Texas folks that post on this board. If we met up with any of them, I may post in the meet up/cafe that, 'we meet so and so this weekend, it was nice to finally put a face with a username'....or something of the like. Because it would be nice to do so.

    If anything other than just hanging out and having a few drinks happens, that would be 'nunya'...as in 'nunya business'.

    I mean, I have see a few 'anonymous' posts from regular users that don't want to use their log-in to post about something in case the other couple does recognize the username/situation being described.

    If playtime happened or something thread worthy came up, I don't think that I would post it anyway...something about the situation may be unique enough to clue the other party into the fact it was about them....like, 'hey baby! come here and read this thread...i don't know who posted it, but i'll read it to you...this weekend we met a couple all was going well until they brought out the restraints, the flogger and 3 tubs of cool whip....hey, WE have restraints...a flogger...and 3 tubs of...HEY!'


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    Quote Originally Posted by Alura View Post

    I guess I'm saying I don't understand this thread. Never should anyone post specific sexual events and use real names or anything that might give a clue to who the folks are, whether they post on this board or not.

    Mr. Alura
    Actually, the thread was started following a thread made by members of the board where they named each other. The thread was started by one member, naming another. The other then chimed in and we were told that they were ok with being named.

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    I must have missed that thread, Julie. But if both couples are okay with it, I see no harm done.

    Mr. Alura
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alura View Post
    I must have missed that thread, Julie. But if both couples are okay with it, I see no harm done.

    Mr. Alura

    It was quite a while back. This thread is at least a year old.
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    lol... I must recuse myself from this conversation.

    We never use names (real, imagined, or screen) anywhere unless we have explicit permission. However, we do happily talk about our experiences.

    Ms B.
    I'm not as easy as you think I am but not as difficult as you're making me out to be.

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    Default Re: Would you name names?

    Like others...we don't kiss and tell. Never have and never will. We feel that others that may want to meet us will do so, breaking the ice... which means we break the ice too. To us it is part of the anticipation, the magic that leads up to the moment.

    We just don't like name droppers therefore we don't do it ourself. By the way... did you hear?!?!?....... lmao

  12. Back To Top | #37

    Default Re: If you hooked up with someone from this site Would you name names?

    It's private, it's between you and the other person.
    B & L
    Cruising in New Mexico

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    Default Re: If you hooked up with someone from this site Would you name names?

    Interesting thread . . . especially when I'm in the midst of planning a Meet Up. The short answer for me would be that it would depend on the other member's preference(s).

    Longer answer: If I met a fellow board member at a Meet Up, I'd see no harm in mentioning that we actually met. After all, anyone following that thread would be able to figure out who was planning to go. BUT, anything beyond, "it was a great time, so-and-so were really fun to talk to . . ." No. That's between us.

    Subtlety is not my strong suit. It's all too easy to tease your friends on board, or want to give an update when others ask about them. But I do have common sense and respect for others. So I pretty much don't mention anything regarding a fellow board member unless I know it's okay with them to do so.

    =)
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