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Forum: Discretion and Swinging

Discretion is important to swingers. How to be in the swinging lifestyle and still maintain a level of discretion for yourself and others.


  1. Question Would you stop swinging if discovered?

    by ALilOEverything, 12-05-2004 08:23 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,969
    08-23-2009, 04:25 AM Go to last post
  2. Would you say anything?

    by TNT, 10-01-2008 10:00 AM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 3,136
    10-11-2008, 12:06 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 2,001
    07-25-2010, 11:21 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 2,579
    10-17-2005, 11:23 AM Go to last post
  3. Poll Poll: [A] Who Knows that you swing?

    by MIbbwcpl, 06-22-2004 04:01 PM
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    outted
    • Replies: 125
    • Views: 13,410
    07-06-2008, 02:21 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,369
    02-23-2010, 10:05 AM Go to last post
  4. When do you know that it's a "no"?

    by Spoomonkey, 01-23-2010 06:19 PM
    attraction, discretion, lost interest
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,509
    01-31-2010, 02:38 PM Go to last post
  5. What would you do?

    by swing.kidz, 05-27-2011 11:03 AM
    discretion, outting others
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,744
    06-14-2011, 04:18 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,928
    01-27-2009, 04:32 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,297
    12-08-2008, 12:11 PM Go to last post
  6. what mistake outted you?

    by interested-05, 07-25-2008 04:50 AM
    outted
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,779
    08-28-2008, 10:38 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,702
    09-30-2008, 10:24 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,339
    11-10-2009, 09:16 PM Go to last post
  7. The neighbors are Swingers! Help!

    by northindycpl, 01-29-2005 08:36 AM
    neighbors
    • Replies: 17
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    02-07-2005, 02:31 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,361
    11-07-2004, 08:08 AM Go to last post
  8. Telling people about the lifestyle.

    by couplefromma, 08-09-2004 10:27 AM
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    communication, discretion, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 4,966
    12-13-2005, 04:44 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,679
    04-17-2003, 04:05 PM Go to last post
  9. [A] Swinging With Cameras Present

    by MrkLin, 03-11-2009 02:44 PM
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    cameras, photos, pictures during play
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 2,826
    03-23-2009, 06:33 AM Go to last post
  10. Question Swinging in a small town?

    by Atilla, 09-24-2004 04:44 PM
    discretion, small towns, travel
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,578
    09-28-2004, 10:50 PM Go to last post
  11. Swingers at straight parties

    by JustAskJulie, 01-02-2006 12:26 PM
    discretion, mixing friends, vanilla
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,887
    01-09-2006, 09:41 PM Go to last post
  12. Strangeness

    by knb2004, 08-05-2009 07:39 PM
    discretion, outted, workplace
    • Replies: 13
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    08-17-2009, 06:19 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,586
    05-23-2010, 06:42 PM Go to last post
  13. Social Etiquette

    by eurotrash, 01-04-2013 02:23 PM
    discretion, open minded, relationship issues, secrets
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,270
    01-30-2013, 10:41 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,221
    09-15-2008, 08:18 PM Go to last post
  14. Sharing Pictures

    by OhioCouple, 08-22-2003 08:54 AM
    discretion, photos
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 4,650
    08-24-2003, 12:20 PM Go to last post
  15. Secrecy vs Discretion

    by SunSignFun, 03-25-2007 08:16 PM
    discretion
    • Replies: 8
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    03-27-2007, 11:07 PM Go to last post
  16. Rumor mill - we're in it....

    by Trace Ekies, 05-29-2010 07:40 AM
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    being outted
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 3,819
    06-06-2010, 05:45 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,981
    04-11-2010, 03:00 AM Go to last post
  17. Require the ultimate in discretion

    by disturbed, 07-25-2006 08:50 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 57
    • Views: 5,717
    11-12-2006, 09:20 PM Go to last post
  18. Reputations

    by screaminggood, 02-09-2009 10:55 AM
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    discretion
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    02-16-2009, 05:43 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,703
    01-17-2009, 09:26 AM Go to last post
  19. public information websites

    by interested-05, 04-08-2010 09:01 PM
    ad sites, discretion, personal information, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 543
    04-09-2010, 09:02 PM Go to last post
  20. Question Protecting Your Identity

    by OhioCouple, 11-05-2002 07:36 AM
    discretion, fake names, honesty, personal information
    • Replies: 19
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    06-13-2005, 02:06 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 2,475
    01-25-2012, 01:34 AM Go to last post
  21. Privacy issues at Clubs

    by Ron2007, 12-31-2006 07:40 AM
    privacy, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 6
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    01-03-2007, 06:46 PM Go to last post
  22. Privacy being broken

    by InsatiableRed, 11-17-2011 10:03 PM
    privacy
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,886
    11-22-2011, 04:44 PM Go to last post
  23. Potential of Blackmail and Swinging

    by nvrgesus2, 08-10-2005 07:21 PM
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    being outted, blackmail, discretion, drama, negatives of swinging
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 7,076
    08-20-2005, 11:23 AM Go to last post
  24. Posting Pictures..... NO!

    by BiCoupleTN69, 07-15-2003 03:24 PM
    blackmail, discretion, posting pictures
    • Replies: 17
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    07-27-2003, 11:37 AM Go to last post
  25. People You SHOULD NEVER Swing With

    by JustAskJulie, 05-07-2012 05:19 PM
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    friendship and swinging, people from the past, people to avoid, swing partners
    • Replies: 41
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    05-15-2012, 06:40 PM Go to last post
  26. Pathological Discretion

    by Spoomonkey, 11-14-2005 08:21 PM
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    discretion, good experience
    • Replies: 31
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    11-16-2005, 09:23 PM Go to last post
  27. Outed before we started

    by AdamInEve, 11-01-2007 09:15 AM
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    divorce, drama, friendship and swinging, outted
    • Replies: 38
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    11-11-2007, 02:41 PM Go to last post
  28. Out of the closet?

    by BradAndJanet, 09-18-2003 04:39 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 42
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    01-02-2004, 10:44 PM Go to last post
  29. Unhappy On the topic of discretion...

    by CuteCouple, 08-02-2001 03:29 PM
    communication, discretion
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,007
    08-06-2001, 08:55 AM Go to last post

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