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My boyfriend and I have recently started talking about our sexual fantasies. He mentioned that we would be very interested in seeing me with another guy. We then talked about having a mfm threesome. He says he likes the idea of me being pleasured and seeing me being pleasured and excited. I'm not to sure how I feel about this. I like the idea of 2 guys wanting me at the same time. But I'm not too sure how I feel about my partner being ok with me having sex with another guy and he is more into the mfm idea than I am.

 

Any advice?

 

Thank you.

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I'm with him. This is my favorite thing to do is mfm. Its all about you my dear. If you like vaginal sex and anal sex, and like to suck cock, then doing this all at once can only be much much better. ALL that attention for you and only you? Come on, I think any woman with a good full sexual appetite would love it. I know if I was a woman, I would be the gangbang queen. But I'm just a man with a single penis. Damn I wish I had two lol!

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My boyfriend and I have recently started talking about our sexual fantasies. He mentioned that we would be very interested in seeing me with another guy. We then talked about having a mfm threesome. He says he likes the idea of me being pleasured and seeing me being pleasured and excited. I'm not to sure how I feel about this. I like the idea of 2 guys wanting me at the same time. But I'm Not to sure how I feel about my partner being ok with me having sex with another guy and his more into the mfm idea than I am.

 

Any advise?

Thank you

 

Go ahead and enjoy it! I love my gf a lot and my desire too is to see her satisfied and pleased.

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I had the same concern, not about doing it myself but about why he would want me to or even be ok with it. At first, I thought it was some type of test to see if I had desires other than for him. I read about it, herein and elsewhere and found that the interest by men was quite common. We had our first one, and I simply loved it. Have had 10 or so more and a few swaps, and its all been very good. Just wished I had started when I was much younger. The entire experience has give me much pleasure and much more self-confidence.

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A lot of women overthink this subject. We could have been doing this years ago if my wife hadn't thought I was 'testing her' by seeing if she would enjoy an mfm 3way.

 

Remember, guys sexuality is more of an on and off switch and not that complicated. I think a big concern is judging his level of jealousy. He may not be able to handle what he thinks he can handle and the encounter may end abruptly. Or, in his head he may just see the porn aspect of the sex and seeing you in a passionate kiss may take him by surprise.

 

As you will read here and be told by everyone, communicate with him about his expectations and ask questions about what may happen and how he might feel about it. If he is really interested in it, it can be fun. There is a LOT of stress leading into the first one. After that, much easier. And talking about it is not easy either. I suggest a glass of wine, maybe 2. Good luck!!

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I'm going to express a different opinion. You should do nothing that you do not want. There is no single way that a couple starts into swing activity. And if the notion of swing itself seems distasteful, you should not feel obliged.

 

Tell us more about your fantasy of wanting two guys. Consider that not every fantasy need be turned into reality.

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I'm going to express a different opinion. You should do nothing that you do not want. There is no single way that a couple starts into swing activity. And if the notion of swing itself seems distasteful, you should not feel obliged.

 

Tell us more about your fantasy of wanting two guys. Consider that not every fantasy need be turned into reality.

 

 

This, priority first and formost.

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If you like the idea of an MFM but are not sure about his motive ask him if he would let you play alone has he got bi feelings does he like FMF also , To start do you get fully pleasured by him when you have sex with him or is there something more you would like after it's finished are you left somewhat unsatisfied , he could just want to see you totally pleasured and satisfied with the help of another man for unselfish reason just for your pleasure.

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My boyfriend and I have recently started talking about our sexual fantasies. He mentioned that we would be very interested in seeing me with another guy. We then talked about having a mfm threesome. He says he likes the idea of me being pleasured and seeing me being pleasured and excited. I'm not to sure how I feel about this. I like the idea of 2 guys wanting me at the same time. But I'm Not to sure how I feel about my partner being ok with me having sex with another guy and his more into the mfm idea than I am.

 

Any advise?

Thank you

 

It's good that y'all are talking about fantasies. I'd suggest you keep doing that but explore them deeper. Ask questions that will start a conversation, for instance: "how would feel, Darling, about me (swallowing another mans semen?"" ("him ejaculating inside me?) (Etc.) If there is a question left, ask it.

 

Have you thought about how you would feel about the experience? Would you feel guilt because good girls don't? Would you throw yourself into it, like an actress getting into character? How much would you talk? My late wife was driven. She tried to be the best ever at whatever she decided to do. Swinging was no exception. She liked to say and do outrageous things when we played, which added to the fun for everyone involved.

 

Think things through. Y'all'll be okay! Most Important: Have fun!

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