My wife's mfm fantasy

We have always had great sex. It became more erotic with the pillow talk. One night you moved over to give me a BJ. I was able to finger you. We both had great orgasms. I thought did my wife just like it in both ends? It was probably my sick mind. I would never want you to cheat. Would it be cheating if I was there?

We started a new position. You felt like you were getting 2 cocks. You were into it and so was I. The bed talk increased.

Do you like to suck dick? Yes. Do you want to suck dick? Yes. Do you like getting fucked? Yes. Do you want to get fucked? Yes. Do you want to suck dick and get fucked? Yes. The orgasms were intense. Do you want to suck some other guy's dick? No. Do you want to suck my dick while your getting fucked? Mmmm. Did you like getting fucked by 2 dicks? Yes. Did you cum while he fucked you? Yes. Do you want two dicks? Yes. Are you ready? Yes.

We fantasize about this a lot during sex. So far she is still into it. What should we do? Does she really want to?

Does it seem like she would be willing to go further?

The only way you'll know if she wants to "go further" is if you have a sober, non-bedroom-in-the-living-room, frank and honest talk with her. Talking about it while you're feeling sexy and "in the mood" is not an accurate way of gauging interest.

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It's my belief that most women would like to have other sexual partners besides their spouses. Does that involve an MFM? Or even a man? The only way to find out is to ask her. She may not give you the answer of your fantasies, but if you love her you will discuss what turns her on and under the right circumstances let her try it. Ultimately, you'll love it too, even if it's not what you originally had in mind.

Very good point. So far the talk is only during sex. Thanks

The way I see it. If she ever did cheat on me or wants to now she has approval.

I was in the exact same identical place as you at a point in my last relationship of over 15 years that ended a little over a year ago. We did the same sex play and fantasized about threesomes with another guy and my woman having two cocks. The sex was sooo good! And in the past relationships I've had and had the same fantasy talk, the sex was just as good. WAY better then regular one man one woman sex. I've had threesomes with two women. Fun, I'd do it again in a second, but still no where near as fun as more then one man and one woman. We did DP with toys often, DVP and DP. She liked the DVP the most but did really enjoy anal, my personal favorite. Man she would cum hard with anal sex and clitoral masturbation she would do while we had anal. Of course I would help her play with her clit too. I loved feeling her anus snug and loosen around my cock from her orgasm contractions...PURE ECSTASY. She LOVED having her pussy hole feeling stretched tight and getting pumped deep while being super sloppy lubed and me pumping our toy in her while I fucker her with my cock too. Both in rhythm and off rhythm. And she was never loose when it was just me. And I'm a typical average sized cock. God damn I'm getting hard typing this remembering how hot the sex was. Loved it! Anyway Our orgasm's were over the top intense.

We came together exact same time most of the time. But in real life reality she would NEVER HAVE A threesome ever she said. She was a one man woman. Bummer but oh well. She only enjoyed it in fantasy. It was enough for me. But now that we are broken up, I want a different relationship. I want a MFM or two couples relationship although I am single at the moment. I would love two women too but much harder on the guy. I don't have that kind of time and have too many projects I want to do. With work it would not be enough time for either I feel. Where if its a MFM situation, I think it would be a better emotional situation for the female. The female would get a lot more attention that frankly women want and need. No disrespect meant. But she would get more attention then one man can give at times if he is a industrious man like myself, always working, always busy building and fabricating, welding or machining something. I need my time. But when its play time, its play time, we're getting naughty.

Now I'm going to jerk off. Love great memories! LOL!!!

The way I see it. If she ever did cheat on me or wants to now she has approval.

No. Just getting input from some experienced people. Thanks for your comment

I believe the reason why SW_PA was asking about the "cheating" comment is because the majority of us do not see swinging as cheating. Cheating means deception, lying, and dishonesty. Swinging should be the opposite of that. Everyone is open and honest about their non-monogamy. There is no sneaking around to meet up with someone for sex. You will find that most, if not all, of the members here frown upon cheating.

No. Just getting input from some experienced people. . .

If you want to know your wife's feelings about swing, you should simply ask her.

Cheating is something that two people do alone with each other. Swinging is something that a couple does together with others. One involves lies, deception, and darkness. The other involves trust, communication and openness. One anyone can do but the cost can be very high. The other doesn't cost much but requires time and effort to develop the kind of relationship that is absolutely necessary to succeed.

Cheating is NOT swinging and it never will be.

Agreed. I am going to find out if its fantasy or more.We been together 20 yrs. No Infidelities. The talk we have about mfm makes sex more explosive.

... Where if its a MFM situation, I think it would be a better emotional situation for the female. The female would get a lot more attention that frankly women want and need. No disrespect meant. But she would get more attention then one man can give at times if he is a industrious man like myself, always working, always busy building and fabricating, welding or machining something. I need my time...

From my experience living in an MFM situation for a while before two other women joined our household, I agree with you. The main reason two guys sharing a woman doesn't usually work out is jealousy because of residual male breeding instinct, wanting to keep the child bearer for himself. An MFM arrangement works particularly well if the woman (like me) can become quickly aroused again after sex with her first lover when approached by her other lover. A woman's instinct is to worry more about whether a guy has resources to support her child, so having two men is a further advantage. It helps in our current poly situation of two guys three women that we women all have a lesbian side to turn to if we're all too much for the guys at any time.

Couplers, I am so happy for you and your situation. It sounds wonderful indeed. At this point in my life I just hope to find a single woman period before I die lol.

We have been married for 21 years. We did the mfm with our very close friend. It lasted years til he got married. He still joins us once or twice a year and it's great. He wants to bring his wife into it and thinks she's close to so just a matter of time. Our suggestion is always donut with someone you both are close to and trust. She will feel more comfortable and enjoy it that much more and want to repeat it often at first til you both wean off and space it out or stop or move onto others.