How did you get started? Camming?

We are new here, so sorry if this post is just an every day occurrence.

We are in our mid-twenties and have been together for around ten years. We've been discussing the lifestyle for about two years now, but have yet to actually make a jump. This past weekend we spent sometime on the adult section of Omegle. I (the wife) have just gotten over some self-esteem issues, so this was a huge accomplishment for me. We basically spent the night with just me on the screen, showing just my breasts, and helping get guys off while my husband watched beside me. It was a huge turn on for both of us and subsequently led to the best sex we've ever had.

We tried the camming stuff just to absolutely confirm that neither of us would have an issue with jealousy. We already knew that we would not, but just in case. So now that we had SO MUCH FUN, we are wanting to move to the next level.

So, what was your experience? What is your advice?

We so look forward to reading them!

Well there really are no levels. You simply do whatever your comfortable with. Some folks only want to soft swap. Making out with another couple. Others jump right in and do full swap.

You guys should share your fantasies with one another, then help each other fulfill them. So if he wants to see you with two guys at once, then sign up on the swinger sites and look for single men. If you only want to be with another woman while he watches, look for a unicorn. Get a sexual bucket list together and advertise yourself on the swinger sites.

Some people also go to a swing club to get a feel for the scene. Some think its awesome, some are disillusioned. Most important thing is to get yourself out there in the clubs and websites.

Camming can be fun - but swinging is so much funnier.

First you start out with porn...then its camming (which is just watching porn while the porn watches you), then it's same room sex (live, 3d porn), then soft swap, and finally full sway. Be careful, camming is the gateway drug...

Probably the best way to start is discussing with your husband how you guys want to start.

Options are placing an adult ad, going to swing club...a lot will depend on your discussion with your husband.

What did you like about camming? What do you want? What's the turn on?

Really most of the fun is exploring this stuff with your SO, it brings you a lot closer together.

Of course specific questions, like how do we find another couple to cam with, bring here...hope that helps...

(Husband here!)

This has been a team sport from the get go. Since making this post, we've played on cam sites at least three more times. To answer your questions: We like that it provides us with a relatively safe environment to act out our fantasies. We've messed around with single guys, one single girl and two couples now. Having sex on camera while we watched another couple was a huge turn on for both of us and we're hoping to find more couples to cam with and hopefully find an actual couple to have sex in the same room with eventually.

Any advice that anyone is willing to offer, particularly finding more couples to cam with, we're all ears! We're having a blast and can't wait to explore more.

We totally agree with you and if we had decent internet at our house, we would have started out the same way (living in the country does have some drawbacks...but not many). Thanks for posting a follow up. I wish that I could help you more but while it was something we wanted to do (but couldn't) I just don't have any help here other than you keep going and have a great time (and post updates as you learn more).

we would be interested in camming with you

As for the question in the title: when MsDiscover opened up for all this, we decided to just try out various ways to share intimacy. The first real step was a Tantric workshop (hands on ) and we had much fun touching other people and being naked. Fun enough for the next step, visiting a swingers club. Not 100% our cup of tea. Then we joined SDC and have met a great couple, with them we had our first (soft)swap. But MsD was not fond of SDC at all, so we moved on. Joined a photo-sharing-website and have met a great single guy there, planning a date at the moment. Seems like this photo website is the best fit for now. Who knew?

We didn't but we have found it by try and error. And sometimes success.

So is camming a good start? Maybe, maybe not. Just try and enjoy.