I was going to post this in the "penis size" forum, but I don't seem to be able to. If this is better located elsewhere, please feel free to move accordinglly .
Since it looks like we are very soon going to be activlly jumping back into the swinging world, and this time metting with strangers rather than playing with friends as we have in the past, I thought it a good time to try to adress one of my insecurities.
I am embarrassed by my flaccid penis..
Now when hard, I have no issue. I am not large by any standard, and only a partner of Lilliputian stature would ever refer to me as huge, but when hard I rest quite comfortably on the left hand side of one standard deviation from the average (math geek speak for between 5 and 6 inches depending on overall excitement level). I don't worry about being too small mainly because if I were, odds are I would know it by now, and my level of experience assures me that what I have is plenty adequate to get the job done for most partners. Hell I thought I was completely standard right up until I started pursuing Craiglist!
So when hard, I have no issue. When soft though...,,,.
I know there are those that show, and those who grow. And I am quite definitely one who grows (man I envy those that show all the time). When soft though my cock is quite small. Like really small. Especially when a case of the nerves hits, the fight or flight reaction sets in (that parasympathetic nervous system can sure be a bitch) and blood starts rushing to eyes, brain and limbs, but leaves the part I want flush distressingly in want of fluid.
So I wonder, do I need to worry about this? And am I alone in this concern?
Ladies, do you judge a man's penis while flaccid, or do you reserve judgment until things have progressed. If you see a man with a small flaccid member, are you less likely to play with him?
Guys, anyone else share this insecurity? And if so, what do you do about it at parties/clubs/elsewhere that potential playmates may see you naked prior to actual play time?
Or is this concern just silly? Are people likely to see you undressed at parties/clubs/whathaveyou before you play with them?