It seems that female bisexuality is expected (we have been turned down for my wife not being bi a lot). But at the same time bi males have to hide their sexuality even in this open-minded kind of lifestyle. I say this because I have had many responses for threesomes from guys marked as straight on their profile and email saying they are really bi and would love to be apart of our fun. Whether they are just saying it to get to my wife or hiding their sexuality I have no clue. We also have had a couple we met at a club say they would never play with a couple with a bi male. I personally am very respectful and would never try to play with a guy that wasn't comfortable with it. And a quick search within 50 miles of my area only shows two couple in our age range who even have a bi guy. One with a bi female which I'm kinda afraid to contact (when we are ready to play couples again) for worry they won't want us because my wife isn't bi. So why the stigma against respectful bi guys? I saw a couple of profiles when we went on vacation that they said in their profile the guy was respectful and wouldn't try anything not wanted so obviously guys are afraid to even be naked around a bi guy. Why?