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Someone we're chatting with online the other day asked me if I was bi or straight or bi curious. I truthfully didn't know what to tell her. I've never been with another woman, but the thought turns me on greatly. I find myself looking at other women (but an attractive guy can turn my head just as quickly) and two women together in porn has always turned me on more than a man/woman combination.

 

So, do I call myself bi-curious because I haven't actually had the experience yet, or am I actually bi by default just because of my interest in the opposite sex or is it just a personal preference as to what one considers themselves?facelick

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I think bi-curious would fit.

 

 

Mrs naughty considers herself bi-curious.

 

She has kissed other women and even went a little further but thats about it.

 

She hasnt gone any further than that so until she has a full experience with another woman she is going to stick with bi-curious because she doesnt know for sure if she will enjoy the whole experience. Even though she has enjoyed what she has done so far.

 

She definately likes men better :8-0:: but fooling around with women is kind of kinky.

 

Actualy I think she will probably alwyas consider herself bi-curious because she is far more straight than she is bi.

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We are both bi-curious. We think of it was we are just sexual,and do not draw a line between the sexes in intimate situations.

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I consider myself bi-curious; I've kissed and made-out with women, and have been the receiver from a woman, but until if and when I am a 'giver' I will stick with the curious part

 

dh still labels himself curious on his profile, but he has actually been with men and enjoyed it

 

we are both still more turned on and enjoy sex with opposite sexes more often

 

labels are so confining...you like what you like and are interested in what you are interested in...in fact, some days I may be bi-curious, and some days completely straight...depends on my mood and the company ;)

 

b

 

ps HEY!!! I think you just earned me a t-shirt!!! lol

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It's not the first time someone here has mentioned how confining labels can be (we've said the same thing) but - playing devil's advocate - I suppose they do help when you're trying to compare like with like via an online medium. In which case, we'd agree that you could report yourself as being 'bi-curious' without fear of being sued for misrepresentation.

 

However, we continue to support the assertion that you are what you are, and you like what you like, regardless of how others might try to pidgeon hole you.

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Meow,

 

I like!! :claps:

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Mrs Fun considers herself bi even though she prefers males slightly more. Bi doesn't have the stigma for women that it does for men. Our opinion is, (and 5 cents will get you another), if you play, then you qualify as bi.

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Baremama here...I would have to say curious is what fits best. Can you say that if the oppurtunity presented itself to you, that you would dive in? It took me years to let myself admit I was curious, then when i was given the chance, i gladly took it. I am now a proud Bisexual lady! There is nothing wrong with being curious...tell them proudly that you are!

 

Audrey

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Thanks for your reply! I had noticed for years that I was at least slightly attracted to other women even if I'm still more attracted to men. I guess I've always just been a little embarrassed to admit it. :0)Surrender

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Would definatly say that your bi-curious.

 

With Tazzie she realized that she was bi curious from a porno we had that had a very steamy all girl threesome.

 

She hasn't been with many women, but she does enjoy it.

 

We would say if given the opprotunity, try it, you may really enjoy it. Tazzie has said that she enjoys the touch of a woman the most from it, considering that women know how they like to be pleasured.

 

Good luck to you.

 

:8-0::

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I call myself at this point bi-curious because I want to try the other side..but not just on the recieveing end, do want to try to give pleasure also...if I try it and like it I will consider myself bi, if I don't then I guess I will go back to being listed as straight..

Murky out there isn't it..

 

 

Midnight Hour

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I would agree that "bi curious" fits the bill for what you have described, especially since you have not yet had the opportunity to explore with women. The catagorizing of sexuality is difficult in my book, but if you are looking for FF interaction you are less likely to find it if you tell people that you are straight.

 

I describe myself as "straight" despite the fact that I've been involved in a few FF situations that were enjoyable. I'm not "curious", been there done that so I won't imply that I am still trying to figure it out. I'm not equally attracted to each sex so I don't claim to be bi (thats what I consider to be bi, your interpretation may vary). I take the "if it feels good and everyone is up for it, who cares what you call it" approach. Straight just takes the expectation of FF play away, without the pressure it is easier to go with what works at the time.

 

Annette

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I happen to very much love being with women. Not neccessarily diving down below every time, but I do love everything that being with a woman brings.

 

I'm definitely going to explore more now that I have found someone that loves it just as much as I do. I guess that for me its not as important to analyze it so much (when being with a woman) and more important to enjoy the moment and the pleasure it brings. I have a lot to learn--and damn happy that I am having the chance to do so!

 

Zgirl

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Me thinks it is just plain horney.

If I am caught up in the moment and it seems to feel right and the rest of the group I am with is doing it, I might flow along.

 

But I think it is easier for gals to be bi or bi-curious as they have a more tender aspect in sex. Most guys I have known well seem to think they must take a really active roll and that is probably expected. Most gals seem to be more passive, in my view.

 

Hence when there is FF the experience is more like an exploration than anything else. sort of like, I like this, do you like it when I do this to you? The moans and groans express whether more of the same is wanted or not.

 

bi-curious, I veiw, as a neat phrase that says you have thought it over and you would maybe become involved, if the situation and the people are "right".

 

As for me personally, as a guy, I get all excited seeing two gals appreciate each other. I think part of it is my wanting to learn what they like. If I can learn that she touched her in a certain way and it was really responded to well ---then I might be able to learn to do the same thing and "gently ease her 'over the edge' so to speak" in making her very happpy.

 

Me thinks that is what this has to be all about, making you happy. You do what you want to do and non't let anyone else get you into something you don't want to do.

 

So if you do not yearn for FF, but you have wondered about it, perhaps the phrase I saw of "thinking about bi-courious but still calling myself straight' that I saw somewhere seems like the right phrase.

 

Whatever you do, enjoy doing it, or don't do it at all

HUGs

and

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*looks over her shoulder to check if Quin is lurking...* :lol:

 

To me, you're describing bi-curious. I consider myself fully bi. Not because I like women just as much as men, but because I enjoy Ssex with women as much as sex with men. I won't go and pursue a woman like I will a man, but sex with either is super. :D

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Well, this all makes interesting reading.

 

Oh, by the way, this is Mr. 4forfun making an appearance (long overdue, methinks, although my DW has been keeping me informed of your antics!) so Hi to you all, especially Mich149, who has a great Avatar

 

Anyway, getting back on topic......

I noticed that not many guys had a say about their curiosity levels. One thing that becoming involved with this lifestyle has done for me is to enable me to be more open & honest about things; Not that I was 'Billy Liar' before you understand, but I've been able to open up to my DW about my longstanding curiosity. Full on intimacy would be a No No for me, but there are plenty of things that I would consider acceptable in the right situation. To my surprise & delight it turns out that my DW is as excited about this as I am....Result!

All that remains now is to have a taste, so to speak, & see if the reality is as exciting as the fantasy.

 

So what about it guys.....how far, if at all, would you go, & would the thought of you being tactile with another guy delight or disgust your better halves?

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