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Has anyone participated in or experienced rope play and/or suspension Bondage (Shibari or Kinabaku) style?

 

I would be interested to hear your experiences and what you liked/did not like about it.

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I have tried Kinbaku bondage and I must say it's a very different and unique experience. My husband and I go to a dominatrix regularly and one time she asked if I would be interested in rope bondage as there was a rope master coming into town. There has to be a high level of trust between you and the rope master, so I wouldn't do it with someone you just met, and the rope master has to know what he or she is doing. Our dominatrix was there during the whole thing and I trust her to look after me. The experience is thrilling yet relaxing, scary yet sensual. I actually enjoyed the tying process itself, just seeing myself bound by ropes in intricate patterns, and the rope master did it without making a knot. I felt this special connection with the rope master, he could tighten the rig with a tug here or loosen a part with a tug there. It's a feeling of completely giving up control and giving it to someone else. We did 3 variations, first was the normal standing upright position, then a partial suspension with one leg standing on the ground and one leg lifted, and finally a suspended "M" with legs open (imagine on a stirrup at the ob/gyn but sitting more upright and suspended). I couldn't explain it, but when the suspension was set, I actually felt very relaxed and turned on. I did have some pain from the rope digging in and running across my skin.

 

I got some rope burn afterwards which hurt for a few days. Some of it was my fault for moving around when I should have stayed still. I enjoyed my experience but not something I would do on a regular basis. Just a matter of preference. I think whether you have a good or bad experience depends in large part on the rope master. I didn't use the safe word and the master didn't do anything that we did not discuss before hand. We discussed what was to happen before anything started so that's important. My experience included hot wax and sexual intercourse during suspension but the bondage really stands on its own.

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My biggest fear when l was just fantasizing about rope play was the thought of cutting off someone's circulation. After some practice with my BF and tips from a mentor at the time, my fears were holding me back from something I'm doing well at so far. Just a little time consuming, but I guess as I get better at it, it will not feel as time consuming. I find rope play and suspension very erotic. Not the hooks. Just rope. There is a club near by that offer rope lessons. I have not made it down there yet because of my work schedule. So right now depending on CD's and you tube. You'll be surprised what you can learn from youtube.

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I have some pictures of rope play on our profile on Kasidie. (There are some on SLS, but I haven't updated those in forever.)The process, if done right, is very intimate and the resulting sex is amazing! Once I learned a few basic structures it really took off. I now bring rope with me when ever we meet a new couple. We have yet to be turned down when I pull the rope out. By the time I spend 15-20 minutes slowly and sensually tying the girl up, letting her feel the pull and bite of the rope, as I drag it slowly across her skin, she is usually very relaxed, almost in a trance, and extremely turned on! The way most describe it is that being bound, giving up any freedom, is paradoxically quite freeing! At some point in the tie there is a release from having to worry about what to do--- they just let go and completely enjoy what is being done to them. i can attest to this as i have been tied and bound and thoroughly used. It is very liberating from the norm, you more have to worry about what to do and just enjoy what is being done! I now have a couple of regular rope dates. Another rather interesting development is that I have a had a number of women contact me to tie them and take photographs to give their boyfriends or husbands as a surprise. Soft swap couples have appeared out of nowhere to play....

 

Rope is one of those things that can be intimate, sensual, rough, painful, extremely pleasurable, depending on the mood and what is wanted. It's more fun than any other toy, implement we use...

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